Dad's House

Dating & Parenting
by a Single Dad


Internet dating – sadly, I’m a bit of an expert

Posted on February 15th, 2008 | 20 comments

In eight years of divorce, I’ve browsed thousands of profiles and met hundreds of women through various dating sites like match.com, salon.com, chemistry.com, eHarmony, and craigslist, making me a bit of an internet dating expert. First dates covered a range of activities, including meeting for coffee, cocktails, hiking, cycling, dinner, museums, and even the occasional [...]

Oh great, Another Bestseller with a Deadbeat Dad

Posted on February 14th, 2008 | one comment

Tom Perrotta’s new book, The Abstinence Teacher, is for the most part an enjoyable read. But what’s with the main characters – a divorced man incapable/not allowed to raise his child, and a woman whose only male friends are gay? Isn’t it time to stop furthering these socially toxic stereotypes?
As a heterosexual man who is [...]

Classic Gin Martini Recipe

Posted on February 12th, 2008 | 4 comments

For years I was strictly a vodka martini drinker, until my brother introduced me to Plymouth Gin. Supposedly, the New York Times cocktail guru swears by the brand. Here’s my brother’s recipe for a perfect gin martini. For optimal drinking conditions, have his wife fix it while you sit on the deck, basking in the [...]

The Kids and their Mom are skiing for Ski Week… how can I compete?

Posted on February 12th, 2008 | one comment

Ski week is upon us, and the kids will split their vacation time equally between their mom and me. The first half of the week she’s taking them skiing at Lake Tahoe. She has everything they need – snowboards, ski suits, goggles, helmets, walkie-talkies, and 4-wheel drive for safe mountain travel. She takes them to [...]

I Fired My Cleaning Lady

Posted on February 11th, 2008 | 2 comments

A few weeks ago I fired my cleaning lady, Julia. Maybe not the brightest thing for a single dad to do, especially with a teenage girl and preteen boy in the house. But Julia had expanded her business (thanks in part to referrals by me) and no longer personally cared for our home.
The new workers [...]