Comments on: Putting the EX in SEX http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/03/05/putting-the-ex-in-sex/ Single Parent Dating, Raising Children, Parenting Teens Sat, 21 Nov 2009 05:03:21 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Ginger Magnolia http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/03/05/putting-the-ex-in-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-16990 Ginger Magnolia Mon, 27 Jul 2009 02:45:25 +0000 http://dadshouse.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-16990 Amen to that, brother. It's nice when you already know how to please each other. Not so nice when one of you still has feelings, though. It can be lots of fun, though. .-= Ginger Magnolia´s last blog ..<a href="http://gingermagnolia.wordpress.com/2009/07/26/lying-liars-and-the-lies-they-tell/" rel="nofollow">Lying Liars and the Lies They Tell</a> =-. Amen to that, brother.

It’s nice when you already know how to please each other. Not so nice when one of you still has feelings, though.

It can be lots of fun, though.
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]]> By: catscratch http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/03/05/putting-the-ex-in-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-7128 catscratch Sun, 23 Nov 2008 03:19:20 +0000 http://dadshouse.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-7128 I keep reading about the stages of life. I honestly wish I'd known how many differences there are between people who are in such different stages of life a long time ago... Sex with an EX can be awesome, as long as it stays just that. I have to agree with you when you say that it obviously ended for a reason and why would anything be any different the second (third) time around. <abbr><em><abbr><em>catscratch´s last blog post..<a href="http://rantingdiva.wordpress.com/2008/11/22/slutty-skanky-into-s-m/" rel="nofollow">Slutty, Skanky & Into S & M</a></em></abbr></abbr></em> I keep reading about the stages of life.

I honestly wish I’d known how many differences there are between people who are in such different stages of life a long time ago…

Sex with an EX can be awesome, as long as it stays just that. I have to agree with you when you say that it obviously ended for a reason and why would anything be any different the second (third) time around.

catscratch´s last blog post..Slutty, Skanky & Into S & M

]]> By: dadshouse http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/03/05/putting-the-ex-in-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-46 dadshouse Sun, 13 Apr 2008 23:52:34 +0000 http://dadshouse.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-46 I met this ex at a friend's birthday party. Funny thing is, the friend was hoping to set me up with another woman there - someone in her 30s who wanted a real relationship. But the woman I liked had this great smile and energy... couldn't take my eyes off her. I approached her, flirted, got her number, asked her out, and our summer fling stretched into fall. Since this post, she and I have reconnected as FWBs. We both know that's all it is. Gone are the dinners, hikes, and concerts, replaced by text message booty calls. It's a little odd since we did have a more meaningful relationship before, but this kind of sort of works for the moment. Like you said, just ride the train... I met this ex at a friend’s birthday party. Funny thing is, the friend was hoping to set me up with another woman there – someone in her 30s who wanted a real relationship. But the woman I liked had this great smile and energy… couldn’t take my eyes off her. I approached her, flirted, got her number, asked her out, and our summer fling stretched into fall.

Since this post, she and I have reconnected as FWBs. We both know that’s all it is. Gone are the dinners, hikes, and concerts, replaced by text message booty calls. It’s a little odd since we did have a more meaningful relationship before, but this kind of sort of works for the moment. Like you said, just ride the train…

]]> By: lance http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/03/05/putting-the-ex-in-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-47 lance Sun, 13 Apr 2008 23:39:34 +0000 http://dadshouse.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-47 Dude, I think this is great. This is a real life example of a FWB AND an older guy with a younger woman. My advice, which is something I'm sure you know already, is just ride the train and be completely open with her (and yourself). Basically, she's going to do the FWB thing until she finds herself same-age boyfriend. The sex will probably be totally sporadic. There's nothing wrong with that. Focus on your friendship and make sure you allow yourself to remain friends with her (non-physical) after the inevitable happens. If either of you start to get too attached, you might have to be the one to shut it down. If you don't mind my asking, how did you meet her?? Was wondering if there was a blog post about it... Dude, I think this is great. This is a real life example of a FWB AND an older guy with a younger woman.

My advice, which is something I’m sure you know already, is just ride the train and be completely open with her (and yourself). Basically, she’s going to do the FWB thing until she finds herself same-age boyfriend. The sex will probably be totally sporadic. There’s nothing wrong with that. Focus on your friendship and make sure you allow yourself to remain friends with her (non-physical) after the inevitable happens. If either of you start to get too attached, you might have to be the one to shut it down.

If you don’t mind my asking, how did you meet her?? Was wondering if there was a blog post about it…

]]> By: modernsinglemomma http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/03/05/putting-the-ex-in-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-45 modernsinglemomma Fri, 07 Mar 2008 06:00:55 +0000 http://dadshouse.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-45 very true...love that last line your wrote =) very true…love that last line your wrote =)

]]> By: sexplory http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/03/05/putting-the-ex-in-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-43 sexplory Wed, 05 Mar 2008 21:00:55 +0000 http://dadshouse.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-43 I really have difficulty with this subject - there is someone I've been sleeping with for the last year off an on. We dated for a period of time before it fell apart to to commitment issues (not on my side, mind you), and we are still great friends, however the physicality between us makes it damn hard to keep our hands off of eachother. I'm really interested to see what happens, or how your two figure eachother out - I mean, is it cool that a random hookup happens? Is anyone able to keep the emotions out of a bootycall with someone you used to be emotionally involved with? What do you think? I really have difficulty with this subject – there is someone I’ve been sleeping with for the last year off an on. We dated for a period of time before it fell apart to to commitment issues (not on my side, mind you), and we are still great friends, however the physicality between us makes it damn hard to keep our hands off of eachother.

I’m really interested to see what happens, or how your two figure eachother out – I mean, is it cool that a random hookup happens? Is anyone able to keep the emotions out of a bootycall with someone you used to be emotionally involved with? What do you think?

]]> By: singlemomseeking http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/03/05/putting-the-ex-in-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-44 singlemomseeking Wed, 05 Mar 2008 18:35:01 +0000 http://dadshouse.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-44 "Putting the EX in SEX." You are so darn clever. I love that. Thanks so much for being open. “Putting the EX in SEX.” You are so darn clever. I love that. Thanks so much for being open.

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