Comments on: How to Start Dating a Single Dad

By: Ms. Two Pump Non-Fat Hazelnut Latte « JUST A MAN’S JOURNEY

Ms. Two Pump Non-Fat Hazelnut Latte « JUST A MAN’S JOURNEY — Fri, 16 May 2008 06:26:20 +0000

[...] to make that initial contact and determine if there is a reciprocal interest. According to Dad’s House it is our role as man to pursue (well at least for us old fashioned types). Guess what? She broke [...]

By: Heather Mac

Heather Mac — Wed, 14 May 2008 06:11:00 +0000

Here you are again, associating massage and sex. Watch out buddy! The AMTA will be after you soon! Chinese food and sex, OK. Massage and sex, not OK.
:)

By: Cara

Cara — Sat, 10 May 2008 06:25:06 +0000

EXCELLENT POST!

I particularly agree with the bit about men being the one to do all the chasing. The sooner women learn and RESPECT that, the sooner they’ll start experiencing great & satisfying relationship dynamics.

Cara

By: Via Text: Wanna Go Out? « Ms. Single Mama

Via Text: Wanna Go Out? « Ms. Single Mama — Sat, 10 May 2008 03:18:26 +0000

[...] Thanks to Dad’s House (who has yet to text me) for inspiring this post, with this post. [...]

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Fri, 09 May 2008 19:42:43 +0000

MsSingleMama – I agree the F-bomb text is vulgar. But when it arrives at midnight from a woman you are intimate with but didn’t spend the evening with, it can be effective in a slutty way. (btw – I only got that one once, and in the context of that particular relationship, it was perfect.) I would never recommend a guy texting a woman like that!

The way to a woman’s heart is not by directly asking her for sex. It’s through massages and chinese food. Here here!

By: mssinglemama

mssinglemama — Fri, 09 May 2008 19:35:22 +0000

Oh … DH – if someone sent “wanna f**k” to me I’d never talk to them again or “want booty?”

Once, an ex texted me, “wanna wrestle?” Ha. Okay, that one was kind of cute and made me laugh but he got a big deny. First of all – over a text? How dry is that? Made me feel like such a slut.

Such a turn off. Might have been cool prior to my single mom status but now … I would like to see – “Want a massage?” “Want some chinese take out?”

By: Lance

Lance — Fri, 09 May 2008 16:24:51 +0000

@Debra: Ooh, I love this game. The most basic interest text is “Hey, how was your day?” But it’s not very interesting and forces one person or the other to come up with something interesting to continue the dialogue. She, for a chick sending to a guy, it works fine.

I prefer funny/mysterious texts that are statements. Example: “Wow, the most exciting thing just happened to me!” This will compel her to text back and ask a question. From there you can say whatever, or if something exciting really happened, you can say that. OR, you can text response, “Give me a call tonight after 8:00 and I’ll tell you ;)” Emotional spike. Now she’s got a little something to look forward to.

Here’s another one:
“Hey cutie, I just saw X and it totally reminded me of you.”

…where X is something interesting, exciting, curious, weird, sexy, whatever. The more mysterious the better.

This pretty much works for gals too. This girl I’m seeing, Kitty, texted me yesterday about a crazy incident at work…someone DIED (she works at a hospital). Obviously not a good thing, but I sure as hell was compelled to call her that night. I called, and we had an actual PHONE CONVERSATION for 1.5 hours about a bunch of cool stuff. Pretty nice, huh?