Comments on: Single Parents are Missing Out on Intimacy

By: Andy H

Andy H — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 03:08:56 +0000

I am dating a single mom with 3 kids. We have sex with her kids in the home, when they are asleep and when they are awake. She has 2 daughters from her marriage & a son from another man who was abusive. Her daughters have no problem with me sleeping with their mom, because I treat her very well & because I make her happy.

Her son is an over indulged brat, she tried to make up for the fact, that his father never want to see him, until a year ago when she went after him for child support. The boy is 12. The boy wants his mother to be with his father. His father is abusive with a criminal record. The boy really resents me. I tried being nice to him & getting to know him, but he does
nothing but try & sabotage my relationship with his mother.

So now I have taken a page from nature shows. When a new male moves in, in the animal kingdom, he drives off the young males from the last mate. Obviously I am not going to drive off her son, but I have let him know I am an adult & I am not going anywhere & I am not going to take his shit.

I have sex with his mom when he is in the house & he knocks on the door to interrupt us. I told him that when the door is closed, don’t knock unless someone is dying, or he will pay a price. I told him to him in an assertive tone. The boy no longer knocks on the door and since I now act dominant & the kid no longer gives me any shit. Now he usually goes to his room when he sees me.

I know this much seem harsh but the boy’s father uses his son to try and break me and my girlfriend up. The father is too much of a coward to try anything himself, he is only tough with women. Unfortunately his son is acting the same way.

By: WMT: Irreconcilable Differences « What men think.

WMT: Irreconcilable Differences « What men think. — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 19:53:50 +0000

[...] Intimacy that provides trust, love, and loyalty. David Mott of DadsHouse recently wrote about Single Parents are Missing Out on Intimacy. I wondered to what degree we must concede in order to achieve intimacy with another. [...]

By: SINGLE_M0M

SINGLE_M0M — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 22:23:10 +0000

David – Thank you for removing Deb’s comments. I stopped myself – several times – from commenting but didn’t want to stoop to her level.

Glad you enjoyed your Father’s Day weekend.

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 19:42:38 +0000

PJ Momma – LMAO!

By: Cathouse Teri

Cathouse Teri — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 18:50:18 +0000

Hee hee.

By: pajama momma

pajama momma — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 18:46:48 +0000

Great, now I look like I have tourettes.

By: Cathouse Teri

Cathouse Teri — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 15:57:28 +0000

Good plan, Dad. I was thinking the same thing. It did get kinda ugly and was making such a mess on your nicely polished floor here at Dad’s House! :)