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She was honest and said she didn’t want a relationship from the get-go, said she just needed some rebound sex and she got it. Cool. You agreed and entered into this arrangement knowing full well the deal.

Now it seems you’re the one who is upset that she wasn’t bluffing and really doesn’t want anything more. Hello?

Now, WHO gets more emotionally involved in sex, eh?

At any rate, Occam’s Razor (<<cute) is right in the sense that this ain’t rocket science. It didn’t work out. End of story.

If you’re looking to learn something, well I think we’ve already discussed that in email. ;)

I kind of respect the mystery lady for following through with your proposition. It took balls on her part to go to a virtual stranger’s house and get naked. This whole post is so entertaining… but it’s got be a little weird when it’s all about your sex life. I was wondering when your ego was going to kick in!! Thanks for making me laugh!!

You do have a point. Sleeping with someone new, especially after having just met them, nerves can make the sex less than incredible for some. It’s weird blogging about my own experience and then reading others conjecture – my male ego wants to stand up and shout that I’m friggin’ fabulous in bed, but the rest of me knows it really doesn’t matter. Though, any woman who wants first hand knowledge on this topic can schedule a coffee date with me. Hahaha!

Thanks for the insights!

Okay, I gotta say it. Please don’t take this the wrong way but… I totally wondered the same thing “what if the sex just wasn’t that great for her?”. If she’s been with the same partner for a long time, NSA sex with a stranger can be disappointing and sort of unpleasant. My personal experience with my current boyfriend- I really dug him, we had this amazing chemistry so I jumped into bed too fast with him. The sex was really pretty bad to me the first time, it was awkward and felt like we rushed into it. I might have just let him go but he pursued me right and I gave it another chance. Funny thing is I was so nervous on our next date after that, little did he know it was because I was worried the sex would be bad again. But it kept getting better and now the sex is fantastic, amazing, mind blowing good!

Anyway, a possibility and not necessarily a reflection on your abilities – she’s going through a lot now and she may want NSA but might not be cut out for it (I’ve BTDT too).