Comments on: Hot for Teacher

By: Bill

Bill — Sat, 08 Aug 2009 15:19:33 +0000

I am married to a hot older 2nd grade teacher. Just a peek into our life on Back to School Night. First I help her pick out an edgy but appropriate suit. Maybe the skirt is a little too short and maybe an extra blouse button is open. Always over a push up bra and thong panties or just pantyhose. After she comes home, I hold her in bed, my hand stroking her while she tells me about the young fathers she met and what the chemistry was like between them. Then I use their names during a role play aexual fantasy with her. So you see it goes both ways!

By: Zeet

Zeet — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 23:09:01 +0000

Just read this, and I had to respond. I am a single dad as well. I Have met my Daughters 2nd grade teacher twice now. Once at open house, and then I volunteerd to help out a couple weeks ago in her class. I ended up being there or a couple hours, hleping the children with pumpkins etc. I found myself attracted to her and got the feeling that it may be reciprocated. We email eachother almost every day, mostly regarding my daughters making it to school on time on the days her mother has her.
Here is my question. I am thinking about asking her out. She does not have a ring, and she goes by Miss.
I was thinking about simply stating, “hi, I hope I am not overstepping my bounds, but I was wondering if you would be interested in going out some time?”
Or should I not even bring up the overstepping bounds part?
[Ed. Note: this comment was turned into its own post with plenty of follow-up comments, How to Ask a Teacher Out]

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 05:33:58 +0000

Jimmy – sorry! For privacy sake, I tend not to blog about relationship successes. And I have had some. Plus, I’ve been dating for years, so I have much to draw on when I tell stories. Some stories are recent (like this hot teacher one), others happened a while ago (like the salsa one). It’s not like I’m out there every night of the week.

By: Jimmy

Jimmy — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 01:47:14 +0000

I read a lot of your entries here. Looks like you have left few stone unturned-online dating, approaching strangers, salsa dancing, wine tasting, etc. and have not been ultimately successful. Almost like dating has been a full time job. How does that make us who spend a lot less time pursuing dates have any hope?

By: Treemama

Treemama — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 13:21:40 +0000

Ha, I love this. Way to put it out there. I wish I had that much confidence! Treemama's last blog post..My Pick of the Week

By: Hip_M0M

Hip_M0M — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 12:21:36 +0000

I think there’s actually a policy for that kind of thing. I know at a previous school my son attended, the teachers (female, and my age) were very cool and I actually asked a few of them to go out for a girl’s night out type of thing.

Perhaps they thought I was hitting on them – now that I think about it – but they did mention that it was against school policy to “befriend” any of the students’ parents.

I assume this would be the case for this particular teacher as well, if she were single and available.

If you did date one of their teachers, as you mentioned, don’t you think it would difficult for both of you to keep it from them “until the the school year was over?”

I would think your children would be more upset about you trying to hide this from them than they would be embarrassed by the idea of it.

Just my two cents.

By the way, where did you go to high school? Doesn’t sound like a good situation there…

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By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 06:19:12 +0000

Clay and Single Parent Dad – I get what you’re saying. On the other hand, when I went to high school, one of the teachers knocked up a student. I’d rather teachers were dating parents than members of the Senior class. And as a single dad in the suburbs where there aren’t a lot of women, I pounce when I come across someone who might be available. Regardless of her career. If I’m hot for teacher, I’m hot for teacher.