Comments on: Dating After Divorce

By: John

John — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 16:56:23 +0000

Don’t rush.

Seriously.

Wait.

Get to know yourself.

Date as an independent guy. You’re more attractive that way.
John´s last blog ..Guitarman

By: Dafydd

Dafydd — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 06:59:07 +0000

I just wanted to say that I love this site

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 16:50:04 +0000

Tina – being socially active and meeting people at work can be a great start. Are there singles at these events you attend? Or can you and your work friends do things where there will be other singles? Be open to meeting someone, keep your radar up.

In nine years of divorce, I’ve met a lot of women through online dating. While only one of them actually became a girlfriend, online dating is a tool for meeting other singles who want to get out.

Most girlfriends I met through friends – at dinner parties, block parties, birthday parties, etc. Most of these events had a majority of married people, but I always found someone single at the bigger events.

I have stories and advice about meeting people and dating in the Dating tab above: http://dadshouseblog.com/dating/

By: Tina

Tina — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 08:17:37 +0000

I was reading your list above. I have a question. I have been single for 3 years now and I focused on being the only parent in my 3 kids’ life. Were do I start as far as dating or even having sex. I mean I somehow can be socially active and meet people when I am working, but when I got divorced I aso divorced our friends, so how were do I begin? Is there advise? Oh also do men see a women as a user for one nighters? Please!!! Thanks T

By: PooMaster

PooMaster — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 08:04:28 +0000

Well here is my timeline Week one: anger, hate, resentment Week two: Tears depression for her and the family Week three: tears for the thought of our family Week four: numbness Month 2: making out with random women at the bar Month 3: comboof week 1,2,3, because of month 3 End of month 3 and all of 4 and started talking to some one who I am considering getting serious with. I would have by now I just did not want to hurt her if I was not sure but I am. I will do along term now because I know not to over look things this time around. I know what I want and it is statistically bound for failure anyway 1st marriage 41% divorce 2nd 60% divorce rate and 3rd 73% failure [url]http://www.divorcerate.org/[/url] Awesome! PooMaster´s last blog post..If you are pissed I can help

By: Leah

Leah — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 02:51:47 +0000

Thanks for this timeline. Wish I had read this right after separating! I got into a very classic rebound relationship 2 months after separating. bad, bad, bad! Now...almost a year since separating, and 4 months after my divorce... tons of sex has not materialized on the horizon. I'd settle for some hand holding and the new Coen Brothers movie. Leah´s last blog post..Exhausted mama tries to blog

By: Cathouse Teri

Cathouse Teri — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 14:24:47 +0000

MeThinks ~ that was an excellent way of summing up DM's point. But I especially like Barry's conclusion: When I think I'm ready for a relationship, I'm probably just ready for sex. :) Cathouse Teri´s last blog post..If Living is Without You