Comments on: Long Distance Dating for Single Parents

By: Dr. Jenn

Dr. Jenn — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 22:52:35 +0000

I think it's smart to know what you can and can't do! And to know what your priorities are. Ultimately, you are much more successful that way- even if it takes more time. The right woman will respect all of that, and adore that you adore your kids so much! Not that it makes dating easier knowing you are doing the right thing! :) Dr. Jenn´s last blog post..Who Else Wants to be a Warrior Goddess?

By: wcswimmom

wcswimmom — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 01:10:24 +0000

I totally understand the long-distance issue when you have the kids. If I were childless I would be living in Oakland or SF where all the singles seem to hang out. But since I am not, I am stuck in suburbia with all the married people, facing a long commute to meet anyone, or not dating at all.

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 02:12:33 +0000

Invite me to Sonoma for music – I’ll go! Especially if it’s Tool…
Oh, and I kind of sort of like bad girls. The other bad…

By: Kat Wilder

Kat Wilder — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 00:19:18 +0000

You've just been finding the bad Marin gals — and not the good bad. but, heck — I can't even get my girlfriends to go to Sonoma County to hear live music! And I didn't mean to suggest that you are'n't open-minded — I was using the broader you.. Still, I do find most people can't get out of the Friday-Saturday night dating rut. I know a few people who work nights and weekends and holidays — it ain't easy for them when the world works in reverse! Kat Wilder´s last blog post..Play me, baby

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 18:23:21 +0000

Huh, Kat – you’ve written before that when you were dating online, you weren’t looking for relationships. You were looking for FWB. And the term lover usually refers to a relationship based on physical intimacy. So, I guess thanks for this clarification.

As for suggesting I be more “open-minded” – I have been PLENTY open-minded. I’ve tried dating women in your neck of the woods. Sadly, they wouldn’t get in a car and drive my direction. They wanted me up there. Me being a dad, I wasn’t available at their beckon call. A relationship like that doesn’t work for me. Does that make me closed-minded?

By: Kat Wilder

Kat Wilder — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 17:56:37 +0000

Yikes! When I say lover I am talking about a relationship.. not a FWB or booty call. They are not lovers; they are just, well FWB or a booty call. I guess it's a matter of semantics; however, I would never, ever be in a relationship with someone whom I couldn't call unequivocally my lover. Know what I mean? Kat Wilder´s last blog post..Play me, baby

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 16:09:18 +0000

Kat – lovers are easy! I don’t put distance restrictions or minimum weekly requirements on them. This post was more geared towards dating than friends with benefits. Oh, and if me being with one of your girlfriends takes the fantasy away, I guess you’ll just have to join in. (Haha)

PooMaster – a ring-less woman in a park? Tell me which park! It ain’t around my neck of the woods, for sure. I do meet woman locally, and have some good female friends. Just no girlfriend at the moment.