Comments on: Lonely Housewives

By: Splash!

Splash! — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 02:45:38 +0000

Had a rough year separated (places, lost intimaacy and intolerable arguments), but friendly short business calls about 13yr old daughter mostly with wife of 16yrs. Faced with lack of friendly feminine intimacy, facing a will-we-or-won’t-we-ever-be-sweet-again situation, and being a very socialiable, cheerful, enthusiastic and brave boy, I actively sought female energy, flirty, friendly, but goodnight at the door but must admit if presented NSA, might have! I’ll never really know.

But little George Washington, faced with the cherry tree incident, cannot ever tell a lie. (Always got caught, sadly even from youth, thus I learned one story only is safest). Therefore I never lied to any or all the gals I teased and flirted shamelessly, and I could keep honor intact and keep looking wifey in the eye and with a straight face telling her no, not me, not never since you (dammit you KNOW I want you, I am dying over here!) But she sure knew I was spending time with others, suspected hanky-panky always, didn’t like the idea a bit, but I could counter with wise up girl and start being nice to me again, then I won’t! I need YOU, get over here!

And I have the Monster Flamboyant Karaoke style and repertoire to prove it.(Splash! Baby guess who just entered the room!)

By: Melany

Melany — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 13:53:57 +0000

I can’t imagine going to a bar, looking for male company when i’m married. Even in the bad times we had

By: April

April — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 16:15:35 +0000

I couldn't agree more! April´s last blog post..Random Thursday

By: SDMktg

SDMktg — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 23:32:39 +0000

It seems to me there are different "girls night out" codes in effect. My girlfriend and I just had a conversation about this last night and she said when her and her friends get together there are "no boys allowed". It's just girl time. When my ex went out on girls trips I can only imagine what went on as one of her friends was single and apparently the married ones weren't happy. I have mixed feelings about it now but if you can't trust someone why be with them at all. They could just as easily cheat during lunch on a normal work day as they could on girls night out. And yes, sometimes flirting is just flirting with no expectations or intentions. SDMktg´s last blog post..Vote Early and Often

By: MindyMom

MindyMom — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 22:45:42 +0000

I agree with 24 and I also used to be "one of those" moms. My (now) ex-husband traveled and ignored me when he was home so a night out with girlfriends was always welcome. As much as I like my girlfriends I have always enjoyed conversation and friendship with men too. (maybe due to growing up with brothers?) I never strayed or even thought of it on those nights out but men were drawn to me even with a ring on my finger, and not only for the "wrong" reasons; I wasn't flirty or desperate, just receptive and open to meeting new people.(isn't that one of the benefits of going out?) Can't men and women chat and hang out without being suspected of other motives? MindyMom´s last blog post..Reality Exposed: Single Mom Seeks Child Support (Part 4)

By: Angel Cuala

Angel Cuala — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 07:19:06 +0000

Interesting scene. I guess these housewives are not only lonely, they're also desperate. Loneliness makes people crazy, though. By the way, I found you at onteenstoday.com's post - 50 Best Dad Blogs and it's nice to meet fellow father bloggers here. I just included myself in your subscribers list, anyway. Thanks! Angel Cuala´s last blog post..How to teach your Teenage Boys to respect Women

By: T

Tue, 18 Nov 2008 03:00:03 +0000

My ex traveled all the time with work. He didn't go out at all with the guys when he was home. He is divorced from me now and still doesn't go out. Now... I do know that he drank heavily when he traveled and stayed out all hours. Who he talked to? I don't know. Me? When I was married and went out with my married girlfriends, I always hated the fact that they wanted to hang out and try to flirt with guys. I never could do that. That's the thing with me. When someone has my heart, and my ex did til way after the bitter end, every other man is pretty darn invisible. T´s last blog post..Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl