Comments on: Sexy Arrangement

By: movin down the road

movin down the road — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 03:33:27 +0000

oh my goodness. sex for rent. We know "what that makes her!" Yikes. movin down the road´s last blog post..Comfort Food Today

By: la dolcevita

la dolcevita — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 13:01:14 +0000

Love that you posted a Journey vid! Too bad I can’t listen to/watch the videos you post when my kid’s sleeping next to me. You’re not the only one not getting any these days. ;)

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 03:29:14 +0000

Ditz – when I had a girlfriend, we had tons of sex. I miss that! I think any single adult, whether a parent or not, can go through “dry spells”. Women tend to weather those spells with more patience than men. But even if craigslist didn’t exist, there are married people on match.com and yahoo personals seeking sexy arrangements and affairs. There are people on myspace looking for casual hookups. There are singles bars and hotel bars in cities all over the US (and world!) where singles are trying to hook up. I’m not saying it’s the best idea, but it sure happens a lot.

How did that Journey song go?

A singer in a smokey room
Smell of wine and cheap perfume
For a smile they can share the night
It goes on and on and on and on…

Don’t Stop Believin’ video

By: ditz

ditz — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 23:59:04 +0000

When I was in my 20’s (and single) I didn’t. But even then, I had a hard time staying detached. Maybe I just need a few more years by myself…

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 22:09:04 +0000

Ditz – I totally get the “ewww” factor. I am not a fan of one-night stands. Do you have the “ewww” factor toward friends with benefits? Or toward a lover?

As a single parent, physical intimacy is hard to find. I’d rather date and have a girlfriend, but short of that, I’d rather have a sexy arrangement with a lover than be a monk. This woman and I met with the intention of exploring an ongoing physical relationship.

By: ditz

ditz — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 21:58:39 +0000

Dadshouse

If I found out that a guy I was dating had picked up total strangers from craigslist for just sex…he would be history.
There is a huge ‘ewww’ factor there.

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 20:44:32 +0000

Hi Listen to me Bitch – thanks for checking out my blog! Love your insights so far. I agree that men should pay on dates, even if the woman works and is independent. That’s just my style (though I think it’s ingrained fairly deeply) I found this particular woman on craigslist. Nowhere in any of our communication was paying for a sexy arrangement mentioned. We were exploring an ongoing relationship as respectful lovers.