Comments on: Sexy Text Messages That Can’t Be Ignored

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:12:08 +0000

Keith – actually, it’s not a woman wanting attention. A man emailed the story to me. His wife was trading text messages with her lover. Check the follow-up post: http://dadshouseblog.com/2009/01/14/discreet-affair/ Did she want to get caught? Probably.

btw – congrats to you that you and your wife are solid, and don’t need advice from others! I do find it amusing your read all these comments, since you think they’re that silly. Go mow the lawn or something!

By: keith

keith — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 17:12:30 +0000

So I read most of the notes and read the story. Are you all serious here? Is there really a need to give this person advice? Here’s what I get out of it, a mans perspective: This woman wants the attention, she needs to feel like a victim and is looking for support and like minded people to ‘pile on’ with her. I would even doubt that this happened and bet that she has posted the same type of mail to several venues to get her much needed attention.

Here’s what she should do if she really wants advice. Send that phone a text message saying,”It’s time to talk, I think I know hwat has been going on and it either stops today or I am leaving” (pending on what her desire is from here) Just like her starving for attention, he wants to get caught, what idiot leaves a cell with those messages in a drawer, really? He is either trying to end this by showing her he doesn’t care or testing her to see how far he can go.

Quick answer – confront, evaluate and decide how to proceed. The basics of communication and humanity. For hte love of Christ, 50 posts over an idiot that can’t figure this out, no wonder men have all the good jobs, women are too fixated on crap. Go mow the lawn, clean the dishes – do something productive. And before you say I ma unproductive for being here, well I am here becuase the title was “Sexy Text Messages” and I was looking for inspiration on what I could send that was sexy to my wife of 10 years. I don’t even know if I can get it up after all this stupid banter, hopefully my diatribe worked out all the angst and I will be good to go tonight. Geez, at least change the title to keep people like me from ever having to read this man-hating crap.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 17:00:39 +0000

My spouses text from an anonymous person said “I miss you” “I want you” “I need you” “I love you” “Muah” – top that one!

By: marc

marc — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 11:41:15 +0000

found our joint phone bill with 750 txts to another lads number 400 of which were whislt we took the kids on holiday when confroned she told me it was just a bit of fun texting i am no longer with her and have since found out the truth which was not nice upwards and onwards i say the bitch

By: bribri

bribri — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 05:03:57 +0000

and btw for every jackass messed up jerk out there, there are 3 beatiful bitches to make up for trouble the jackass has caused the human race!!!!

By: bribri

bribri — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 04:58:33 +0000

NO MALE ON PLANET EARTH WOULD WANT TO BE IN A COUNCLERS OFFICE WITH HIS WIFE!!! ur just gonna make him feel like his balls have dropped!

By: ShrimpieDad

ShrimpieDad — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 14:27:52 +0000

This is one that’s close to my heart. I suspected my wife was cheating on me for months, only to have her vehemently deny it, accuse me of being a jerk for not trusting her, and punishing me for doubting her. Ultimately we got divorced for a very angry, disfunctional relationship. [ Ed. Note: this comment in its entirety is here: discreet affair comment. ]