Comments on: Hot Date, Cold Approach

By: Luna

Luna — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 23:50:02 +0000

Dont get me all wrong, but this all sound too cocky. Guys can always try door #1, BUT is the woman’s decision, right? just because she was talking to you all night, doesn’t mean she was interested in you sexually. Since you were nice enough to disclose about how men think, i thought i’d explain how we think: it’s her last night in town, and instead of seating by herself, she started a conversation with a stranger. You seemed pretty harmless and interesting to chat. When there’s a good banter, time flies. She’s already decided not to sleep with you that night, based the fact that she was not flirting with you… come on, men know when we are flirting heavily, and the way you’ve described, she wasnt. She finishes her evening thinking that you are a great guy, nothing else. Otherwise she would have called and try to hook up. But women dont make effort for long distance, if they instinctlly know that there’s no chance for romance there. Sounds strange, but some smart women can sense when someone is just flirting (to get something out of it); or flirting because the guy is very into you and looking for some romance! We are smart!;)

By: Lisa Maria Carroll

Lisa Maria Carroll — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 20:20:56 +0000

Gee, I want a man to follow me like that. And then let's see where it goes. Lisa Maria Carroll´s last blog post..What Would You Do?: My 15-Year-Old is Having Sex

By: badmuthablogger

badmuthablogger — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 05:36:17 +0000

Well done, mate. You really cocked that one up, didn't you? Bet you're kicking yourself now. I guess you're just a nice guy at heart. Good to know there are still some out there. P.S. IMHO She won't call you back until she's (a) back in town and (b) broke up with her boyfriend / partner / husband. badmuthablogger´s last blog post..Baby Crazy Octomama

By: Canadian Bald Guy

Canadian Bald Guy — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 23:59:06 +0000

Hey Dads. I think in my single 20's that Door #1 would have been the most obvious and, realistically, only option to take at that particular moment. In my divorced, single-father 30's...I'd like to think that I'd be strong enough to go for Door #2. But as you mentioned, it's an extremely difficult choice to make when you're in an empty bed every single night. But at the end of the day, it's all about what you want and what you're looking for. For me...I'm about wanting to find the right relationship, that one person that I can grow old with. Ten years ago that wasn't even a consideration. Whether she calls you back or not, you made the choice that you wanted to make based upon your feelings. Maybe if she was hot and not as interesting to talk to, Door #1 would have been more appealing. No regrets, my man. You'll never truly find what you're looking for if you don't take a risk every once in awhile. Canadian Bald Guy´s last blog post..The single parent online dating scene

By: QTMama

QTMama — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 23:52:29 +0000

Ahh DH, you gentleman. I dig that you choose the door you did. And if she doesn't call back? It's her loss. QTMama´s last blog post..DeFunkification Process - Complete!

By: The Exception

The Exception — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 23:14:04 +0000

I like that you chose number 2. In doing so you also chose number 3 and there is always hope for something else... or there is possibility. One never knows what can happen. You showed respect... I like that too... and I bet she will remember that even if you never see her again. Living in the moment and respecting one another... how can you go wrong or have regrets! The Exception´s last blog post..It's a Different World

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 19:03:43 +0000

SingleParentDad – John Smiths? Can we can that here in the States? I’ll have to look for it at the local pub.

I don’t go out solo very often, but I absolutely will. Dinner is actually easier thank drinks. I can head to a restaurant and eat at the bar, and there’s always someone else having drinks or food who I can talk with.

Eathan – I am nowhere near as smooth as you. I need lessons.

Laura – I often go for door number 1, but this woman really turned my head, and I wanted something more.

Kat – I agree, regret and making plans are both silly. You have to just react to whatever comes your way. That said, if a hottie comes my way again…