Comments on: Shirtless Runner

By: Candice

Candice — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 02:43:49 +0000

Great story! Candice´s last blog post..Dear Visio repair man

By: Giovanna Garcia

Giovanna Garcia — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 05:24:38 +0000

I think your intuitions are right about not asking her out. If she would go out with you the shirtless guy, what is it to say she wouldn't go with the next 10 shirtless guy. If she has no loyalty to her soon to be husband, she would have no loyalty to the next guy. You are wise for walking away. Thanks for sharing. Giovanna Garcia Imperfect Action is better than No Action Giovanna Garcia´s last blog post..Believe in yourself.

By: new single mama

new single mama — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 01:50:49 +0000

Nice story. It's probably best that you didn't do anything about it. But you always wonder about those chances you didn't take... new single mama´s last blog post..Dating report

By: Cathouse Teri

Cathouse Teri — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 14:39:34 +0000

I don't think what-ifs are at all fun to ponder. In fact, I find them to be excruciating, having the effect of undermining self confidence. I choose not to participate in them for that reason. My dad taught me at a young age that it's called "shuffling the if-deck" and it's worth exactly nothing. You know... unless you are practicing to be a card dealer or something. ;) Yes, you could argue that "the unexamined life is not worth living" and say that this is an example of just that. Or you could argue that it's good to question oneself on a regular basis, thereby continually pushing oneself to improve. But I say that examining life is something that should be more in kind with looking over and seeing. Observing so that you can glean the fulness of your experiences. But observing things that are real and not spinning your wheels on what could have been. And I think much better of confirming oneself rather than continually questioning oneself, as it leads to more purposeful thoughts and actions. Cathouse Teri´s last blog post..Sweet Cherry Wine

By: mama llama

mama llama — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 03:06:24 +0000

What-ifs can be oh-so-much-fun to ponder, though, can’t they?

Be well, Dads.

By: Lindsay

Lindsay — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 17:07:12 +0000

If she had a single thought about going out with you, she must have not been too “into” her fiance. I think you did the right thing, she probably would have ended up doing the same thing to you! WOMEN! Can’t live with’em, can’t live without’em. hehe

By: barethomas

barethomas — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 16:45:56 +0000

Sorry, my thumb slipped, hence the one-word response. You definitely did the right thing to disengage. And to stay disengaged. You were right to be chary of someone who seemed to be leaving the door half-open while suggesting that it was all but closed! barethomas´s last blog post..Don't knock it if you haven't tried it