Comments on: Gold Diggers

By: Sarah Timbers

Sarah Timbers — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 13:11:02 +0000

Yeah, some women are like that. But they are not happy in such relationships because the only factor in relationships for them is money. So they end up with men who they have nothing in common with.

It’s nice to spend money on expensive clothes and bags, but at the end of the day is the relationship that counts. And if there’s nothing to it, then the person will naturally be unhappy.

By: Brad Blackham

Brad Blackham — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 16:16:34 +0000

Since I live in Utah; the pressure from the Mormon culture will get you to marry… if I can only figure out how to get pregnant from you… Or whatever.

By: Brad Blackham

Brad Blackham — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 16:06:22 +0000

I am looking for a woman with a good steady and secure career who will be willing to provide for me. I will be the best stay-at-home parent imaginable! I’m really good at sex and I will do your laundry and cook ;) . I just need you to bring home the baccon. Yeah!! Maybe there will be a milk-lady or a paper-girl while you’re gone I can mess around with. And I can run up a bunch of debt and force you to pay it off; divorce you, force you to pay alimony and child-support payments, and negotiation a very large settlement from your other business assets. hehehe. you’re cute. WINK ;)

By: Divorced Lifestyle

Divorced Lifestyle — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 17:21:59 +0000

Much like CJ, I became a sugar momma to my ex-husband. He quit a good job in order to take over the family business, moving us into his parents’ home in order to care for his ailing father, and because there was no way we could live on our own with just my income. I had no say in the matter, but it was my wages alone that had to pay the bills.

This lasted 8 years until I had enough and we divorced.

Any potential mate will have to be able to support himself. Period. I don’t think that makes me a gold digger – just practical.
Divorced Lifestyle´s last blog ..Want to make a 16 year old happy?

By: SweetPeaSurry

SweetPeaSurry — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 20:49:51 +0000

This is a terrific post. I think all women have in the back of their minds the proverbial ‘provision’ provided by men. (I’m an illiteration genius!)

I think on the flip-side (or at least I hope there are people out there like this) that women know and understand that their happiness is something they can attain themselves and don’t need to look towards a man’s wallet for the answer. I know I’m planning on working until retirement, and I have no problem with that whatsoever.

In addition, there’s no reason why some of those ‘jealous’ types can’t scrimp and save and have such lustrious vacations themselves. It’s likely they’ve just spent their hard earned income on something else that they’re not even considering.

Wow … I guess it hit a nerve in me too!

blessings!
SweetPeaSurry´s last blog ..My New Bunny

By: notasoccermom

notasoccermom — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 02:51:46 +0000

wow! this struck a nerve right back it seems with the amount of postings. I hope my response is not lost.
As you know from reading my blog, I seem to find fun in the most uncostly of vacations. this is because I must. and I am ok with that.
My mother used to say I could have fun in a parking lot.. and it is true. I see that in your posts also. I was not in the least bit offended with your trip descriptions. I wouldnt say I was envious but certainly wishing I could experience the same. Take that as a compliment. If I would have had more time (lately been busy with car problems.) I was going to post that you really should write for travel agencies as you sold me!
There are gold diggers there for the money
there are some who are just there for the sex.
common in my neck of the woods, some dated only for religious reasons…
all bad ideas.
I for one will continue to live through your words. hold nothing back
notasoccermom´s last blog ..Busy Summer

By: M

Sat, 18 Jul 2009 01:59:38 +0000

I can’t even fathom that shit. I mean, yes, I would like to find a man that is gainfully employed but there is no way in hell I would date or marry someone for such shallow reasons.

That shit really doesn’t happen round here in the Boondocks, maybe that’s why I like it here so much.