Comments on: When Sexy Texting Leads to Divorce

By: Ange

Ange — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 21:25:31 +0000

Hi,
Gosh, having come from a divorced home, I know first hand how some women can be vicious and try to make the guy feel like he’s wrong, belittle his suspicions and try to smooth things over when she’s the one actually doing the cheating in the relationship, and trying to heist kids and income too.

My dad never got over his divorce. He even signed everything over, no contest – and he wasn’t the one cheating! Too bad in those days he didn’t have a cell phone with a camera as he and my little sister walked in on them in their own house! He managed to walk over to a friend’s house and collapsed with a heart attack. Can you believe she actually told my dad and my sister that they must have walked into the wrong house!

If he would have had such irrefutable evidence like Joe did, I really believe it would have made a huge difference in his life and his personal happiness.

Glad it worked out for Joe – and to think I was being naive and trying to believe that maybe it was something innocent on her part…. I should have known better.

Guess there are times when you know that you can rekindle the magic in a relationship and when you can’t. Joe obviously knew and he did the right thing.
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By: The Exception

The Exception — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 20:17:05 +0000

Every situation is so very different. he was wise to consider his options and take his time. A great lawyer can do wonders – but mediation can be a wonderful option as well – especially when there are children involved.
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By: Cathouse Teri

Cathouse Teri — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 14:39:26 +0000

I agree with BLW. Again.
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By: BigLittleWolf

BigLittleWolf — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 00:35:51 +0000

Quite a tale! Glad that responses here were helpful for Joe, but my overwhelming feeling in reading this – and the comments – is one of sadness. For all of us who’ve lived these challenges and sorrows to varying degrees. I can’t help but wish our society were less stuck on marriage. Perhaps then we’d take more time, and if we discovered things about ourselves, or our partners, the exit strategy would be less traumatic.
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By: Cathouse Teri

Cathouse Teri — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 18:59:01 +0000

Yes, as Mindy says, it does depend on where you live. In many states, it wouldn’t matter how much evidence of cheating you have.

But it sounds like this story has a happy ending. Good deal.
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By: QTMama

QTMama — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 18:56:30 +0000

Well, this worked out well for Joe. What patience the man must have, I admire that!

And I too, live in the no fault type of state. Neither of us were cheating so it doesn’t matter, but man, I’ve seen some friends that have sure wished this state was a faulted state!
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By: Honey

Honey — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 18:28:22 +0000

That’s crazy! Glad he got what was probably the most fair thing for him.
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