Virile In My 40s
Men over 40 can’t get it up!
Or so some women say.
At least they’ve said that to me, before we dated. After? That’s a different story entirely…
Head on over to the Silicon Valley Moms blog as I corrupt the moms with a dad’s view of old guy virility.
(If that pre-programmed link doesn’t work, try this link to all Dad’s House posts at SVMoms.)
I promise you won’t need any blue pills to read this post.
Just as I don’t need blue pills for…oh, you know.







Comment by BigLittleWolf
| September 18th, 2009
Funny post, both here – and on SVMoms! But the fact is, many dating dads out there aren’t in the “peak” condition that you are. To my surprise (when I jumped back into the dating waters), many men from 40 on up are on pills other than the little blue ones. Anti-depressants. They lessen or kill off libido and sexual performance. Peek at my post on Sex and the Dating Dilemma of SSRIs for a little more on the topic.
And happy days for that woman who found a fish to swim with who wasn’t on meds!
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Comment by Mark
| September 18th, 2009
On my way! Not too hard to believe.
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Comment by Jimmy
| September 18th, 2009
Good to see that old thing about too many hours on a bicycle seat didn’t apply here.
Comment by Mindy/Single Mom Says...
| September 18th, 2009
I wouldn’t make that generalization about men at all. I think it has more to do with his health and lifestyle than age. Personally I know sex has only gotten better as I get older so why not for men too?
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Comment by ZenMom
| September 18th, 2009
Great post!
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Comment by Senorita
| September 18th, 2009
Hahahahaha! I’ve never heard that one before, and I always thought that men were usually much older than that to have such a problem. Either that or they’ve always had a problem.
But now that you brought it up, I wonder how the stereotype became the stereotype.
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Comment by Ditz
| September 18th, 2009
If you are dating women young enough be still reading Cosmo, well, there is your answer. LOL
Comment by dadshouse
| September 18th, 2009
Full disclosure: the “men over 40 don’t get hard” comment came from a 35 year old woman. The Cosmopolitan connection is my own imagining. The “dang, you’re virile” comment came from a woman in her 40s.
I’m loving the comments over at SV Moms! Seems there are some virile 40-something men out there. Spread the word!
Comment by saint nobody
| September 18th, 2009
Eh? What’s that sonny? You say your post’s gone viral? Sorry, I’m losing my hearing in my old age… ;)
Comment by Matty
| September 18th, 2009
I can attest to the fact that after 40, and after 50, virile is still in MY vocabulary.
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Comment by BigLittleWolf
| September 19th, 2009
Of course, for some of us, it may be a moot point… Shouldn’t there be some unwritten rule about who gets Saturday night – you, or your teen?
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Comment by The Exception
| September 20th, 2009
It is nice that you write this DH – but I require proof!
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