Comments on: From Sizzle to Fizzle Before the Second Date

By: Nancy

Nancy — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 03:43:36 +0000

…maybe you read a lot into something that just wasn’t ‘there’ to being with (ahem). and maybe she’s not a ‘bee-yatch’ and maybe she just didn’t dig you (or maybe you were just embellishing with a lot of personalized drama for the purposes of a blog post…:)

By: Sandy

Sandy — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 12:18:10 +0000

Doncha just hate people like that?! It’s not difficult to just be nice. Well, maybe for some people it is.

I’ll say it again, I’m so glad I’m not single.
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By: Leigh-Ann

Leigh-Ann — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 08:42:02 +0000

Good riddance,you are far better off without her. I think it takes a shoot load of courage to ask a woman out on a date, most men fear rejection, good on you for trying. Why on earth some woman think they are superior and deserve much better is beyond me.
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By: notasoccermom

notasoccermom — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 04:36:22 +0000

Yeah she does sound like a real biotch let her go.
I do have a question though… my friend and I seem to come off as biotches on many a night out and honestly, we are either repulsed by the overly drunk, overly immature or overly touchy feely types we seem to run into and honestly, on my part at least, shy a bit…
how – from a mans point of view would we not come across as bitchy but rather the confident, and secure women we are.?
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By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 02:03:12 +0000

Edgar – I agree!

Sandra – my goal in the wine bar wasn’t to pursue her again. It was merely a friendly hello, to see how she’s doing. I refuse to stand there and act like we had never met. Her response in the wine bar was rude and immature. Hardly befitting a 40-something mom. She could have said “oh, hello. How are you. Nice seeing you. Have fun tonight.” And be done.

Ginger – I love your term! Totally appropriate here.

By: Sandra

Sandra — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 00:31:53 +0000

I hope my comment didn’t imply that this is a reflection on David. Having actually met him, I only have good things to say.

She didn’t have to act like that, but it was clear that she was not interested and he still pursued her. From reading his post, the signs were there early on.

My point is, she was just not interested and never initiated anything. Personally, I think she did him a favor by acting like that upfront so she didn’t end up dragging him into her drama. And now he is free to pursue others more worthy of his time.
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By: Edgar

Edgar — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 00:15:19 +0000

I have to disagree with Senorita. There is no excuse for treating someone with disdain, as Ms. Flips Her Head apparently feels it is appropriate to do. It’s not a reflection on David, because I am sure that he is always a gentleman and a sensitive soul – I can’t imagine him saying hello would be obnoxious at all. So, if she did not have an interest in talking to him, she could have briefly said hello and that it was good to see him again. But to be a c*nt waffle is so unnecessary. Then again, maybe she was raised by a drama queen and a brownnoser, and knows no better. At some point, though, she has to take responsibility for her own actions.