Comments on: Male and Female Dating Perspectives

By: oshea12566

oshea12566 — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 15:15:55 +0000

Happy to see most female readers of your blog agree that the way he met her was NOT a red flag.
But some women actually saw how a he hunted her down as a red flag? Are they kidding? What isn’t a red flag then?
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By: Sarah Timbers

Sarah Timbers — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 12:52:25 +0000

Definitely not all women think this way. I think it’s great that he made such a move. It would be even more romantic if a woman would live in a different country and the guy would come just for her!

By: CheeryWise

CheeryWise — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 20:04:32 +0000

I have to admit, I agree with Lance. If you’re looking for a gf/bf, strategy is important. Nothing wrong with following up on a tip… if there isn’t chemistry, no harm, no foul! It’s a cute story, all the more so as it expands to reveal the underlying truth.

I love the Cosby reference! They were the coolest couple – even if just on screen.

By: katherine.

katherine. — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 05:21:32 +0000

I didn’t have the time to read all the other comments…

geez….I thought it kinda romantic that he went off his normal routine to find her…and it worked.

but the part about being a guy…and the advice not to tell the truth…I find that objectionable.
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By: QTMama

QTMama — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:48:20 +0000

Oh please, this is SO NOT a red flag! I’m surprised by the suspicions of the women! I mean, if we’ve said it once, we’ve said a million times – If a guy wants to date you?

He’ll find a way to date you.

Period.
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By: Lance

Lance — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 14:54:31 +0000

An interesting thought here and I’ve definitely heard it before. Some people sort of have their head in the sand and insist on meeting a partner in a totally “natural” and “organic” way, that is to say by pure coincidence. I think this is why there’s a social stigma against online dating (which is diminishing, though), because you’re “shopping” for a gf/bf vs. having it happen in a storybook fashion. The fact is, dating is a bitch and the reality of modern dating is you have to do anything and everything to find a good partner and fulfill handle that area of your life. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with a little strategy and going out of your way to find someone. I’ve seen this for both guys and girls, so I don’t think it’s gender specific.
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By: Sandy

Sandy — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 11:32:02 +0000

If there really are women out there who said that, I think it’s nuts! I’m pretty certain I’m a little older than the people involved but I don’t see a problem with someone being told “hey there’s a woman you might like working at ABC, why don’t you check her out?” How does that give any hint of insincerity or infidelity on his part? Apparently he was single, she was single, they liked each other, voila!

If someone recommends a restaurant to you that you’re not familiar with or a different cuisine, do you try it? I hope so. Sheesh…how dumb.
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