Comments on: My Sexy Daughter

By: Tina

Tina — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 05:32:48 +0000

And again I am floored by the comments here. My Sociology class just watched a video on the music videos now being made. Women are shown as being objects for mens pleasure instead of respected and loved for the human beings we are. Sex does sell, but we are the ones that buy it! I don’t think a woman needs to be sexy for anyone but herself if she chooses to and our daughters should be taught to be proud of more than their bodies! We were born naked and the human body is a beautiful thing, it’s society that has made sexuality such an issue. Our daughters wouldn’t be so prone to want to dress “sexy” if they didn’t see it as the only way to get a mans attention.
Advice to women: Love what YOU see when YOU look in the mirror and forget about the rest.

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 00:18:13 +0000

Honey – I didn’t say sex should be reserved for procreation. I totally agree with you that sex is vital and fulfilling physically, emotionally, psychologicaly and spiritually whether or not you’re making babies. But should we all be having random sex with random people? I don’t think so. Hook up all you want, but be prepared to own up to any consequences.

btw, I wrote a safe-sex post last year in response to a single mom who hooked up with a guy she’d just met, and didn’t use any protection. Yeah, she got pregnant. http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/06/04/who-needs-protection-its-only-a-one-night-stand/

By: Laura

Laura — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 16:02:13 +0000

I agree with this post 100% and I think it is the mistake people so often make.

My 6 year old GIRL CHILD does not need to wear a halter neck top exposing half her body or a push up bra – she is a CHILD now and will be until she is 90 (ok kidding – at least maybe 18 :-p)
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By: Cat

Cat — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:04:56 +0000

This is what terrifies me about potentially having a daughter. By the time she’d be a teen, they’ll be turning on the sexy at 12, and I’ll be forced into an Amish farming society to protect her virtue.
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By: Honey

Honey — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 20:01:22 +0000

Jake lost his virginity when he was 15, and that seems like a pretty common number (I was 18, but it was less than 3 months after I started college!).

I disagree about the “only have sex with someone if you want to have a child with them.” Sex fulfills us as human beings in hundreds of ways that have nothing to do with having children unless you want it to.
Honey´s last blog ..A Hot Guy Sent Me Chocolate Covered Strawberries

By: Unknown Mami

Unknown Mami — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 18:40:32 +0000

Very well put. Unfortunately, when you are a girl and are not even dressed sexy there is still plenty of inappropriate attention thrown your way.

Too bad things are as they are and not as they should be.
Unknown Mami´s last blog ..The Gaze

By: trinity67

trinity67 — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 18:57:04 +0000

Perhaps if young girls didn’t dress like hookers then men wouldn’t ogle them.

I’m all for wearing clothes to show off your figure but I frown MIGHTILY upon 11 – 16 year-old CHILDREN wearing halter tops, mid-baring tops and jeans so low that you can see their g-strings. That’s inappropriate and occurs when the parents do not teach their daughters, self-respect.
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