Comments on: A Lovestruck Man and a Vengeful Beeyatch

By: Mark

Mark — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 17:32:49 +0000

To love unconditional is the only true love there is.
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By: Laura

Laura — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 15:54:22 +0000

To be loved and to love unconditionally – it is the greatest gift we can give and receive.

To trust so totally in what we feel for another person and want all of it nothing – that is, indeed the purpose of life!
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By: Cat

Cat — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:49:21 +0000

Being a mom has taught me love like I never knew before. But it’s also made me more wary of opposite sex love, because now there are two hearts on the line. Being a single parent is such a delicate balance.

I hope someday I can see that opera- that clip was beautiful.
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By: notasoccermom

notasoccermom — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:41:06 +0000

I can only comment to say- have not seen it, hope to see it.. and I think anyone can become bitter and put up walls when we are hurt- if we want to love again, we need to get past them
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By: Dual Mom

Dual Mom — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:52:45 +0000

I love when people post things that make me go hmmmm…

I know people who do not have unconditional love for their children. I do not know how this is possible, but it is. I would not hesitate to kill myself instantly for any one of my children if it would save their life. There is no one else in my life (now or in the past, after a marriage and several serious relationships) that I would say that about. I don’t know if I believe in unconditional love outside of a parent’s love for a child. Perhaps I need to revisit my definition of unconditional?

An interesting post….thanks.
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By: Danielle

Danielle — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:06:53 +0000

I can honestly say that I have never unconditionally loved a man. I think I find that very sad.

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:45:21 +0000

Nicki - if you attach conditions to the love - someone worthy, someone who will reciprocate - it's not unconditional. That's why it's so hard for many to do. We give our kids love without conditions, though. Dawna - great story. I love how a single moment, and a non-romantic setting, at that, can spark an entire new depth of feeling. Unknown Mami - I hear that same line from married women all the time. I wrote a post about it last year, describing a dinner party where married women fawned over me because I read books and have attended 3 days of teachings by the Dalai Lama. Their own husbands would never do those things. (Some women who read that post said I was unmanly. Whatever.) Single women are a different breed entirely. They can go to the opera with anyone. They are looking for something else in their man. Maybe they want to start their own family from scratch, and don't want the instant family I offer. Or maybe they have their own kids, and don't want to bring any man into their lives. Or maybe they just want financial security, and they like that I have a home. Some women focus on possessions and material comfort, an could care less about the man. (Gold diggers?) I want a genuine connection with a woman. I've found that a few times post-divorce, but in Silicon Valley, those connections have been rare for me.