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A Dad, His Daughter, Her Friend

dad daughter swimming poolA friend of my teen daughter was recently going through a stack of old photographs when she came across a picture of me. I was in a swimming pool, holding her (the friend) so that her head was above water. We were both smiling, mugging for the camera. The girl was three at the time.

Here’s the weird part: this teen girl and my daughter only became friends in high school. The photo was taken fifteen years before.

To which I say: WTF!?

Before this blog post goes all Twilight Zone on you, know that there’s a simple explanation.

By sheer coincidence, our families had both vacationed at Club Med at the same time. Our daughters met and hit it off in the Kids Club. The parents hit off it at the bar, conversation-wise. And I had spent a boat-load of time in the pool with both girls, so much so that the other girl’s mom took photos of us splashing around.

There were pictures of the two girls, as well. But their looks had changed so much over the years, the friend didn’t recognize my then-three-year-old daughter from that trip.

Somehow, I looked the same. (Fifteen years later!)

I guess all those margaritas, mai tais, and martinis have kept me well preserved.

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March 10th, 2010 Posted in family | Tags: , , | 19 comments

19 Responses to “A Dad, His Daughter, Her Friend”

  1. Small world. That’s neat–those are the little coinkidinks that make Life so much fun!

    Happy Wednesday, Dads! Be well.
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  2. Two words: Holy Shit.

  3. Those are the happy moments to always hold on to!

    I have pics taken of my brother an sister and me and our best family friend’s kids at the beach on Long Island…and our parents …and they are such happy and fond memories…of the innocent times.
    Cece
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  4. Okay, that’s a little weird….
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  5. Your daughter is beautiful! And, p.s. the universe is trying to tell you something with a story like that. I don’t know what that is but..WOW!
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  6. Awesome! Keep up those drinks daddio!! :)
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  7. Wow. Small world.

    How about this one? My daughter has a friend who lived down the street from us here in Colorado. Her aunt and uncle were visiting from the same suburb near Chicago that I grew up in. As we talked we discovered they live in my childhood home and they bought it from my parents! They remember meeting me when I was 3!
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  8. Gotta love those weird coincidences! (And the alcohol must be doing it’s job of keeping you glowing. Besides that, you’ve got great cocktail recipes. Still mulling that espresso martini.)
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  9. That’s such a nice story. So nice I don’t have anything snarky to say. Maybe tomorrow.
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  10. It is such a small world. I have situations like that all the time!
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  11. Wow, I guess they were meant to be friends!

    When I was a teenager, I went to a church youth dance in another town (60 miles from home) and met a boy and hit it off, but he lived even further away, so it turned into a long-distance friendship. We found out later that my mom had taught him in Sunday school when we were little. I always thought that was weird.
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  12. Karma – sometimes things are just meant to go a certain way (Sliding Doors) perhaps the girls were destined to meet but because you didn’t stay in touch after the hols, fate has to try it another way …you are now entering the twilight zone!!!
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  13. Very cool story! It is definitely a small world!

  14. this was so much fun to read about–must be even more fun to experience.

    hmmm….the Dad’s House Preservation Plan sounds like a keeper :)

  15. How cool is that? Guess some friendships are meant to be. And some of us just age…beautifully. Lucky you!
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  16. That is a beautiful story. I like it when parents hit it off at the bar. The question is, how well did you hit it off? wink wink…
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  17. Lessons here: 1.You never know who you might meet again….so always put your best foot forward and treat people well the first time! 2.Alchohol is a good preservative.
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  18. That is pretty weird.
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  19. What a fun story. I love those kinds of moments.
    Small world indeed.. and what a compliment to you…. young buck
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