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Planning a First Date is So 2000 and Late

Posted on September 22nd, 2009 | 19 comments

Call me old school, but I grew up thinking it was a good idea to actually plan dates. You know, pick a night, a time, a place, and then go do it.
Women I’ve recently come in contact with are making me think planning dates is outdated.
I was introduced to woman A through friends. We emailed [...]

Can Friends With Benefits Still Be Friends?

Posted on September 4th, 2009 | 26 comments

I’ve had some great impromptu dates recently with girl friends of mine. Note the space between the words “girl” and “friends”. I didn’t say “girlfriends”. Since we’re friends of the opposite sex, there are plenty of sparks. But since we aren’t dating, there are no fireworks at the end of the night.
It’s sometimes a bit [...]

A Woman Walked Out on Me in a Bar

Posted on August 25th, 2009 | 55 comments

I was recently at a restaurant bar with a single mom friend, catching up over drinks. (I tried dating her a few summers back, and the chemistry wasn’t there for more than friendship.)
We were sharing stories about our current dating prospects when the bartender interrupted our conversation.
“I’m sorry, I don’t mean to eavesdrop,” he said [...]

Art Fair Dating

Posted on August 3rd, 2009 | 16 comments

Ah, the summer art fair. Artists set out paintings and sculptures on a blocked-off street so that town residents can come browse and maybe even buy something. Add some beer and wine to the mix, and it’s a perfect way to spend a lazy summer weekend afternoon.
But do singles ever meet at these things?
To my [...]

Your Friend is Cuter

Posted on July 27th, 2009 | 45 comments

Anyone who has ever online dated has probably been there – you flirt and exchange emails with someone based solely on what was written in their profile. Maybe you’re feeling some metaphysical magic and are sure all systems are go. She finally sends a pic – some happy shot of her and her best friend [...]

Ex Girlfriend Inspiration on Facebook

Posted on July 20th, 2009 | 24 comments

I stumbled upon two ex girlfriends on Facebook recently. No, we didn’t Facebook poke each other, write on each other’s walls, or send messages. I don’t even think they saw my profile.
Both ex girlfriends simply inspired me, in different ways.
One ex was someone I had sought out on Facebook, hoping to reconnect. We always got [...]

Just Flirt, Baby!

Posted on July 16th, 2009 | 18 comments

When my teen daughter and I toured colleges on the east coast last week, she saw a side of me I don’t often share with my kids.
I flirted with women like crazy.
Don’t worry, I wasn’t obnoxious or rude. I simply made eye contact, initiated conversations, tossed in some double entendres, and chatted women up.
For instance, [...]