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Ex Girlfriend Inspiration on Facebook

Posted on July 20th, 2009 | 24 comments

I stumbled upon two ex girlfriends on Facebook recently. No, we didn’t Facebook poke each other, write on each other’s walls, or send messages. I don’t even think they saw my profile.
Both ex girlfriends simply inspired me, in different ways.
One ex was someone I had sought out on Facebook, hoping to reconnect. We always got [...]

Just Flirt, Baby!

Posted on July 16th, 2009 | 18 comments

When my teen daughter and I toured colleges on the east coast last week, she saw a side of me I don’t often share with my kids.
I flirted with women like crazy.
Don’t worry, I wasn’t obnoxious or rude. I simply made eye contact, initiated conversations, tossed in some double entendres, and chatted women up.
For instance, [...]

Barroom Savvy

Posted on July 13th, 2009 | 19 comments

My teen daughter and I braved Chicago traffic to have lunch at one particular restaurant my mom raves about. Who knew getting into downtown on a Saturday afternoon would be so bumper-to-bumper hard? Not to mention, our GPS unit was on the fritz.
By the time we got to the restaurant, there were just 45 minutes [...]

Hot Mother in a Boys Clothing Store

Posted on June 25th, 2009 | 29 comments

I took my teenage daughter and son shopping for summer clothes the other day. There in a boys clothing store was a hot mother with her five-year-old son. Dark hair, olive skin, pretty, slim, grounded. Just my type. The sort of woman who makes my head turn so hard, I get whiplash. She looked late-30s, [...]

Do You Find Me Attractive?

Posted on May 20th, 2009 | 36 comments

On recent first dates with two different women, I was asked point blank: “Do you find me attractive?”
To which I wondered – why on earth would someone ask that? On a first date, no less.
But ask they did. And so, with reader’s help, perhaps I can figure out why.
First of all, there’s more to attraction [...]

Do Divorced Dads Need to Have More Kids to Find Love?

Posted on April 28th, 2009 | 42 comments

As a single father getting close to the empty nest years, I’m aware that unless I find a partner, I’ve got lonely times ahead. To help in my search for love, I recently joined Chemistry.com. (I know, I know – I hate online dating! But I did have some success with Chemistry.com years before. I [...]

My Drunk Date

Posted on April 27th, 2009 | 26 comments

Just when I thought modern dating couldn’t get any worse, it goes and proves me wrong, ratcheting things down even lower.
I recently had a drunk date.
No, I wasn’t drunk. The woman was.
Before our date even started.
WTF?!
Look, I know two people can get tipsy on a date. A little laughter, a spilled martini, and pretty soon [...]