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February 1st, 2010
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I recently went out of town for a business conference. I’ve been to plenty of conferences in my day, and so I know that beyond professional networking, a conference can be a great place to unwind, have some drinks, flirt with an attractive attendee, and hook up for sex.
Now, now, I’m not saying this happens [...]
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October 7th, 2009
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22 comments
My friend with benefits texted me: You should know I met someone interesting who wants to date. Consider me off the market for the time being.
I wasn’t too surprised. We’d been seeing each other off and on for the better part of two months. But neither one of us had felt a spark to take [...]
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September 24th, 2009
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20 comments
I received an email the other day.
Dear David. We hooked up last year. It was fun. Call me if you’re unattached and we’ll catch up. I miss having a good man around.
Wait a sec – I hooked up with this woman a year ago? I must have been between lovers, because I haven’t done a [...]
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May 27th, 2009
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31 comments
When it comes to lovers (i.e. booty call partners, not girlfriends), I’m pretty old school, in a modern high-tech sort of way. You text to hookup, have some fun, then go your separate ways, and generally don’t talk or hang out until your next roll in the hay.
I don’t recommend this sort of relationship [...]
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April 2nd, 2009
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27 comments
A neighbor called on a Sunday night to see if I would take her friend, who was visiting, out for drinks. The friend was an attractive woman who lived an hour away, who I had met a few times before. We liked each other enough, but never dated due to the distance between us. Well, [...]
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January 26th, 2009
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21 comments
Remember my sexy wine country date? The one where I met Benita, a Brazilian woman, for a second-date dinner in San Francisco. My single-parent custody schedule wouldn’t permit a third date for at least two weeks, so I suggested she and I head to Napa wine country for a sexy weekend fling. She accepted. Only [...]
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January 8th, 2009
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49 comments
A sexy arrangement between a man and woman can be fun. As long as terms and expectations are set before clothes come off and you’re both nude.