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Married Couples Partying Without Single Parents

Posted on October 12th, 2009 | 30 comments

This past weekend at a youth soccer game, one of the soccer dads was chatting with me about a mutual friend, George. “You should hear George go off at a party,” the soccer dad said. “He’s always telling funny stories!”
Rather than relish the thought of George being hilarious, I was struck by the fact I’m [...]

Single Parent Dating Takes Patience

Posted on October 8th, 2009 | 18 comments

For privacy reasons, I tend not to blog about relationships I’m actively involved in. As such, Dad’s House readers get a skewed view of my single parent dating life. I blog about hookups gone awry, lovers texting goodbye, funny sexy stories, and date-stacking flakes who bail before the first date.
My single parent love life isn’t [...]

Older Men and Younger Women

Posted on September 28th, 2009 | 30 comments

If youth is wasted on the young, perhaps old age is being wasted on me. I was recently in a coffee house when two younger women checked me out. Yes, the older men younger women fantasy flashed through my mind.
Now, now – I know the difference between people looking at me and looking past me [...]

Virile In My 40s

Posted on September 18th, 2009 | 12 comments

Men over 40 can’t get it up!
Or so some women say.
At least they’ve said that to me, before we dated. After? That’s a different story entirely…
Head on over to the Silicon Valley Moms blog as I corrupt the moms with a dad’s view of old guy virility.
Virile In My 40s
(If that pre-programmed link doesn’t work, [...]

Is Divorce Coparenting Easy?

Posted on September 16th, 2009 | 34 comments

A Dad’s House reader politely pointed out that I have it much easier as a divorced man who coparents with my ex, than a full time single dad. To wit:
I don’t mean to diminish what you do as a single dad, but you don’t do it alone. You have 1/2 custody and they have a [...]

Dear Jon Gosselin, I Can Relate

Posted on September 9th, 2009 | 25 comments

Jon Gosselin recently talked to ABC News about things that led to his divorce. For one, Jon said he got tired of Kate Gosselin talking down to him and berating him. Jon said he finally took a stand for himself and stood up to her, knowing it might lead to divorce.
To which I say to [...]

When Hanging Out is Better Than Dating

Posted on August 31st, 2009 | 28 comments

You meet somebody new. You enjoy a coffee date or martini together. You’d like to see them again, but you don’t quite feel the spark, the chemistry, the je ne sais quois – it’s not quite there to ratchet things up another notch and date.
Whatever happened to just hanging out?
I recently met a woman who [...]